Rain
This morning, I got up with the kids around 6 am (as usual), opening the curtains and taking note of the weather. And, as usual, when there's a drizzle out Koen's window I begin to sing "Rain, rain...go away. Come again some other day!"
But today, Koen didn't like this song. With furled brow, he stopped me mid-verse. "Mommy, don't sing that song! Because, if you make the rain go away, then our plants won't get a drink!"
His genuine concern for our little vegetable garden makes me so happy. :)
Messy Brother
Finn, in his ever increasing curiosity and need for independence, is becoming more destructive every day. I keep threatening to get a safety gate for the kitchen...but that's about all it ever amounts to...threats. Why don't I go get one already? At least once a day, he dumps out Oscar's water dish, pulls all the kids' dishes out of the lower cupboards, shakes the open couscous boxes
(yeah, super fun), and tries to suck on the dish soap (luckily the non-toxic variety). Aye!
Yesterday, he moved his activities into his big brother's room where he pulled all of Koen's pants and shirts out of his dresser and dumped out the puzzle pieces and memory game cards. It looked something like '200 card pick-up'. In an effort to encourage helpfulness in Koen (and to give myself a break), I asked him to pick up the mess and put it all away. He did it without any hesitation.
Roughly two hours later, Finn was at it again, and the huge pile of pieces and clothing was right back on the floor. A completely perturbed Koen came running in to me. "Mommy! Finn dumped out all the puzzles and 'remembery' game pieces again, after I picked them all up!"
"Ohhh! I'm sorry, bud. That must be so frustrating for you!" (I'm practicing empathy.) "Why don't you go in and pick them back up. And this time, we'll move them to a higher place where Finn can't reach them. Ok?"
Koen hunched his shoulders forward in defeat and slowly shuffled back into his bedroom. When he got there, he shouted out to me, "But MOM, I feel like I do this all day long!"
Funny. Part of me felt a little gratification in hearing this. I know exactly how he feels.

Pirouette
Koen loves to dance. No secret there. Lately, he's exploring new moves. His new favorite is spinning around on one foot with his arms outstretched. I told him it was like a pirouette. We watched some clips on YouTube of dancers doing pirouettes. Total inspiration. He twirled and whirled all over the place, until he was dizzy. Then out of the blue, a giant smile spread across his face and he said, "I want to see Daddy do a pirouette!........At work!"
:) So would I, Koen. So would I.
What do you think, Clay?
A little movie of Koen's pirouettes...